Resilience Without Responsibility is Exploitation

allynitschke
Jan 2
2 min read

I often hear leaders say, “We need our people to be more resilient.” It sounds good on the surface, but it misses the point.

Because resilience without leadership responsibility is just exploitation.

The Myth of Resilience

Resilience is often framed as an individual trait: bounce back, push through, stay strong. And yes, resilience matters. But when leaders use it as a shield to avoid addressing systemic problems, it becomes dangerous.

Telling exhausted teams to “be more resilient” while piling on unreasonable workloads is like telling someone to run faster while you keep adding weight to their backpack.

The Leadership Responsibility

Burnout doesn’t happen because people aren’t resilient enough. It happens because leaders:

Fail to prioritise.
Allow boundaries to be eroded.
Reward busyness instead of outcomes.

Resilience is a shared responsibility. Leaders must own the systems and cultures that shape people’s ability to thrive.

Radical Accountability in Practice

This is where Radical Accountability changes the game. Instead of pushing responsibility down onto employees, leaders step up and ask:

What signals am I sending about work and recovery?
Where am I creating unnecessary pressure?
How can I redesign workloads to be sustainable?

And just as importantly: Am I modelling resilience in a healthy way, or am I modelling collapse?

Final Thought

Resilience is essential. But resilience without leadership responsibility is exploitation.

Courageous leaders don’t just demand resilience from their people. They create the conditions for it by taking Radical Accountability for culture, systems, and workload.

Because in the end, resilience isn’t about gritting your teeth, it’s about being supported to succeed.

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Ally Nitschke is a best-selling Author, an award-winning Thought Leader and Speaker. She has been working with leaders and as a Leader for over 20 years.

She is on a mission to change the way we communicate at work, to lean into those uncomfortable conversations and lead with courage.

Ally is a Keynote Speaker at conferences, delivers Transformational Programs & highly engaging workshops as well as provides Executive Coaching.