Urgency + Empathy in Hybrid Teams

Hybrid work is here to stay. Employees love the flexibility, organisations value access to wider talent pools, and technology makes it possible. But leading hybrid teams comes with a unique challenge: how do you balance urgency and empathy when your people are dispersed?

It’s hard enough to strike the balance face-to-face. Add distance, different time zones, and varying work rhythms, and suddenly urgency risks being misinterpreted as pressure, while empathy risks getting lost in translation.

Why Hybrid Magnifies the Tension

In hybrid environments, the signals leaders send aren’t always received as intended. A quick Slack message meant as urgency can land like panic. A missed video call check-in meant as empathy can feel like neglect. The margin for miscommunication is bigger, and so are the stakes.

I’ve coached leaders who assumed their hybrid teams “felt the urgency” because deadlines were clear, only to discover people thought tasks were flexible. I’ve also seen leaders over-index on empathy, checking in constantly, only to overwhelm remote staff who just wanted clarity.

Hybrid magnifies both sides of the equation, making balance even more critical.

What Balance Looks Like in Hybrid Teams

To balance urgency and empathy in hybrid settings, leaders need to be deliberate, not accidental.

• Clarity first. Write deadlines, priorities, and responsibilities down. Hybrid teams can’t rely on hallway conversations.

• Structured empathy. Schedule regular check-ins instead of ad-hoc nudges. That way, care feels intentional, not reactive.

• Transparency of workload. Use shared dashboards or project tools so urgency isn’t a surprise and empathy can be grounded in reality.

• Equal visibility. Remote team members must get the same recognition and urgency cues as those in the office.

A Story of Hybrid Balance

A client of mine was leading a hybrid team split across three cities. At first, she relied on email blasts for urgency and occasional calls for empathy. The result? Misalignment and mistrust. After we redesigned her approach, she held weekly team huddles for clarity, paired with one-on-one check-ins for care. She also introduced a simple “traffic light” system where people could flag their energy levels, green for good, amber for stretched, red for close to burnout. This allowed her to flex urgency with empathy, based on real-time signals. Productivity soared, but so did trust.

The Leadership Shift

Here’s the reality: hybrid leaders can’t leave culture to chance. Every signal, tone of voice, clarity of deadlines, frequency of check-ins, shapes how urgency and empathy land. The best leaders flex deliberately, calibrating pressure with presence.

Final Thought

Hybrid leadership demands more intentionality. Urgency needs to be communicated with crystal clarity, and empathy needs to be delivered with structure and consistency.

When leaders strike that balance, hybrid teams don’t just “cope”, they thrive. They deliver results with pace while staying connected as people.

Because in the end, urgency keeps the wheels turning, but empathy keeps the people moving forward together.

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Ally Nitschke is a best-selling Author, an award-winning Thought Leader and Speaker. She has been working with leaders and as a Leader for over 20 years.

She is on a mission to change the way we communicate at work, to lean into those uncomfortable conversations and lead with courage.

Ally is a Keynote Speaker at conferences, delivers Transformational Programs & highly engaging workshops as well as provides Executive Coaching.